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Most of these kids act like little assholes because their parents are big assholes. They will do whatever they can get away with.Commies mom had it spot on. I watched a little princess call her mom a bitch in the middle of a tantrum over a kit kat bar. This 5 year old got the candy bar because mom didn't stand her ground. She went through a retired school teacher cashiers lane.....
The cashier looked at that kid with the catholic nun stare and calmly told her she was acting like a spoiled brat and didn't deserve the candy bar. She looked right at the mom and told her she needed to be this kids mother and teach her that you can't always get what you want. Mom shot back the kid was high-strung and very hard to handle and if a candy bar calmed her down so be it. Cashier still in catholic nun mode schooled that mom next. Kids are all high strung but don't act like that. Candy is the last thing a "high strung" kid needs. Kid was only hard to handle because mom wasn't setting boundaries and sticking to them. She was raising a kid that no one was going to want to be around. She needed to take charge of that immediatly.
At the time I had only been with Target about 4 months. I was in the lane next to her and in absolute awe. Mom bought the candy, kid was silent by now and they headed right to the service desk to speak to "manager". Manager came over to cashier with a smile and just said, "lesson completed "teach"!" That was it, she wasn't in trouble at all. After working with her for over 5 years before her retirement I watched and heard her deliver a few lessons to complete brats and oblivious parents. It really didn't change anything but it was great to see someone say what we were all thinking.
The cashier looked at that kid with the catholic nun stare and calmly told her she was acting like a spoiled brat and didn't deserve the candy bar. She looked right at the mom and told her she needed to be this kids mother and teach her that you can't always get what you want. Mom shot back the kid was high-strung and very hard to handle and if a candy bar calmed her down so be it. Cashier still in catholic nun mode schooled that mom next. Kids are all high strung but don't act like that. Candy is the last thing a "high strung" kid needs. Kid was only hard to handle because mom wasn't setting boundaries and sticking to them. She was raising a kid that no one was going to want to be around. She needed to take charge of that immediatly.
At the time I had only been with Target about 4 months. I was in the lane next to her and in absolute awe. Mom bought the candy, kid was silent by now and they headed right to the service desk to speak to "manager". Manager came over to cashier with a smile and just said, "lesson completed "teach"!" That was it, she wasn't in trouble at all. After working with her for over 5 years before her retirement I watched and heard her deliver a few lessons to complete brats and oblivious parents. It really didn't change anything but it was great to see someone say what we were all thinking.