I know this thread is cOLD, but I had a somewhat similar situation. I transferred stores a while back, and an ETL at my old store was going to have me set up an interview with a DTL, and have me start training for a TL spot while on the bench. I ended up having to transfer, but my recommendation went with me. At this new store, I've told this story no less than 4 times to different ETLs/the STL, and they've all given me the run around saying "we'll wait until after the holidays" and such. Three of them have since left the store, saying "I'm obviously not able to really help with this, but I'll pass the message along to TL x," again several times
I approach TL x and they always give me this dumbfounded look, as clearly this is the first time they've heard of me even working at their store, much less having this ever diminishing recommendation follow me.