Look, basically there is nothing you can do about this. Even if you report it through integrity, it will only cause this ETL and her buddy ETLs to start gunning for you.
What can you take out of this experience? You now know that this ETL is a snake and is not to be trusted for any reason at any time. Let me say that again - THIS ETL IS A SNAKE AND IS NOT TO BE TRUSTED EVER FOR ANY REASON.
This ETL-AP at your store is the most dangerous kind of ETL there is.... It is an ETL who made it her mission day one to go out of her way to write up/term people just for the power trip.... and to make her even more dangerous, she is clearly willing to do highly unethical and immoral things in order to accomplish her sick little power trip.
Never tell her anything no matter how nice she may be in the future. If she starts acting nice for a period of time, remember that SHE HAS NOT CHANGED. This is the kind of person she is. She will knife you and any other TM in the back the first chance she gets.
There is an old Native American story that applies here.
One day there was a scorpion walking along a river who wanted to go across. Obviously, scorpions can not cross a river. However, a fox happened to be walking along the river at the same time. The scorpion said to the fox "Would you let me ride on your back across the river?". The fox replied "No, if I do that you'll sting me and I'll drown." To that the scorpion said, "Why would I do that? If I did that you would sink and we would both die."
So the fox thought about it and decided to let the scorpion ride on his back. As the fox was half way done swimming across the river, the scorpion stung him. As the fox was sinking he asked the scorpion "Why did you do that? No we will both die". The scorpion replied "I know. I couldn't help it. It's in my nature".
The moral of the story? Some people are so sinister in their nature that they simply can not be trusted for any reason.
Remember this story whenever you see this ETL.
I learned long ago to never trust an ETL, for any reason, no matter how nice or cool or understanding they seem to be. Because they all have a hidden agenda and only care about putting themselves on top and making themselves look good. I think it's really sad that this company has deteriorated to the point that the useless college graduates they hire are so completely untrustworthy. But that's a topic for another day.
As you've said, we've come to the conclusion that there really is nothing we could do, even if we try and go to the district level. The last time we had anyone from the district come to our store, it was supposed to be to address the amount of employee complaints against management that we had. But the district representative did not speak with a single person below the TL level. So it was an epic waste of time, and showed everyone that the company didn't give two $#!-$ about anyone. And calling the Integrity hotline also results in no changes and fear of retaliation.
Thank you, everyone, for all of your advice and outlooks on the situation. I really do appreciate it.
Unfortunately, this further proves to me that my store is morally corrupt, and that isn't much that a TM can do to defend themselves. I think it's time to dust off the resume :/