I need some advice here. This is a long one so I apologize in andvance. A little back story here; I was given the Starbucks TL position after it was eliminated at my store, so I am really in charge of two departments. Prior to this, one of the baristas, who I am really good friends with, had said she wanted the position when we found out the TL at that point would be leaving. We didn’t know the position was going away, so it was whatever. Well when I got it, I feel like she probably resented me a little bit, without actually saying anything. Anyway, I am at a point now where I feel as though she is taking advantage of the fact that we are friends, and my inability to say anything to her about her behavior because of some extreme circumstances. Training is going by the wayside, and we pretty much just threw 80 hours right into the trash. She wants them to reschedule time for more training, but she doesn’t understand that hours don’t just fall out of the sky. She refuses to check off their training in the packets because of this, so my DM is all in my business about it. Because I am not over there all the time, I need to rely on her to communicate to me what is happening with training, and she lied to me and said they didn’t get the right amount of hours. Many other things have happened, but this is one of the extreme ones. I hate that I am allowing our friendship to get in the way, but at the same time the circumstances make it nearly impossible for me to feel comfortable with talking to her about it. It upsets me that she seems to be sabotaging it because I got the position and she didn’t. I don’t think that that is how friends should act, especially in a professional setting like this. I could never in a million years imagine doing this to someone, and yet here I am trying my best to get this store out of a hole, and at every turn she fights me and puts me down. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. Again, sorry this is so long!