A little disappointment never hurt any kid.
I wish more of my friends would embrace this at the holidays. Not that all of them have brats for kids, but still, just the simple fact it is ok not to get everything you "wish" for. It's a wish list, not a shopping list.
I promise, the kid will be ok.... I never got ANYTHING from my list, yet I never had a bad Christmas. I always got stuff I wanted and loved. My parents took time and thought into shopping. What I remember most is their shopping date nights in September! They enjoyed the giving experience, and finding stuff we didn't know we wanted.
I've translated that to my kids, I rarely even look at their lists. I've scaled back too, and while Santa is expected to arrive, he only fills stockings and brings a movie/game bucket. They remember that, and have to hunt for the red bucket each Christmas Eve. My friends are appalled, and say they wish the could do that, but can't stop what they started. I started the movie bucket the year I really didn't want the big guy getting credit for the good gift. The same year I technically went with 3 gifts: something you want, something you need and something to read.
I didn't realize a couple of years later it would serve me well as a single mom with no money!
This year, they know what they are getting already.... We've been enjoying time in the parks already. I have a few surprises, but not much.
The my size frozen stuff strikes me as a trophy gift for the parents belt. I'm guessing few kids will have the memories Sher has with hers.... Mainly because it is going to get lost with all the other stuff they had to have. At least the parents will have a story to tell right?
And have to explain to junior why they aren't allowed back into target!