Found out he and other etls went in the sb back room and questioned the baristas if I was organizing the back room correctly even though I organized it exactly like the red wire we got and she even told him all that stuff is autoshipped.. Like seriously!?.. I'm going to leave three pal in the back room for 5 days??.. Come on!.. I told him it was an autoship a week ago. I just don't understand. They're aren't many African American team leads.. Do U think that could be it?
That is certainly a possibility and one that is worth pointing out.
I'm willing to bet this ass clown isn't going to be honest even to himself about why he is running roughshod over you, but it would be nice if someone dragged him up by the short and curlies.
It's time to plant yourself and not be moved.
He can play dodge around your back all he wants and every time he tries, walk through him./
Go to the STL and esplain that you want to be included in the conversations and to know what needs to be done.
Go over his head.
Don't deal with him at all.
He has proven to be unreliable and snakelike.
If they tell you to go back to him, explain that he is giving you mixed messages and creating a hostile work environment.
You say you feel like quitting?
Don't do that without standing up for yourself first.
If this scumbucket gets away with knocking you down, then he will move on to someone else.
On the down side, you might not win but you will have the satisfaction of going down swinging.
Edited to agree with
@redeye58 about writing everything that they say and do down. Keep it factual, times, names, where, why, when and events, stay away from emotion and adjectives. Go to the top. Spot hates stuff that can blow back on them.